HEN PARTIES 

Designate one person as the chief organiser; she can deal with all the hassles of money, hotels and transport.  Choose someone who’s organised and knows everyone in your bridal party.  Give her an idea of what you want. 

Imagine your dream party or weekend and balance that with what your friends can afford.  Traditionally, the group splits the bride's bill, but if you're set on a lavish affair, be prepared to contribute...